Questions, answered straight

The stuff you’re actually wondering.

Privacy, verification, the founding offer, installing, your data, and AI — the honest version, no marketing hedging.

Privacy & discretion
Who can see what I log?

Nobody. Every entry is “Only Me” until you explicitly share it with a linked partner or space — per item, revocable, with a consent receipt.

What is discreet mode?

A single switch that makes Fervra disappear into your phone. It installs as “Notes” with a generic icon, blurs thumbnails, softens labels, and pairs with a PIN app-lock and a quick panic-hide gesture. Your phone left on the table over dinner stays yours.

Can my partner see my private entries?

No. Linked partners see only the specific entries you share with them, per item and revocable, each with a consent receipt. Your private notes about a partner, and anything still “Only Me,” are never visible to anyone else.

Do you sell my data or run ads?

Never. There are no ads, no data sales, and no third-party ad trackers. Analytics are cookieless and aggregate. The founding model and, later, a fair subscription are how Fervra pays for itself — not your data.

Verification
How are you verified 18+?

A real age gate runs before any app functionality — not a checkbox. Everyone confirms they are 18 or older through verification, and where required we escalate to document review. No under-18 access, ever.

Is everyone else really verified too?

Yes. The verified-adults-only gate applies to every member before they can journal, link a partner, or appear in discovery. It is the first thing that happens, for everyone.

Is my date of birth ever shown?

No. Your date of birth is used to verify your age and is never displayed on your profile or shared with other members. You can check your verification status in Settings without your DOB ever being surfaced.

The offer
Is it really free forever?

For the first 5,000 accounts — yes, everything, forever, including features we haven’t shipped yet. After 5,000, new members pay a fair price that covers our costs. Founding members never will.

What happens after 5,000 members?

Founding pricing closes. New members after the first 5,000 pay a fair price that covers our costs — but everyone who claimed a founding spot keeps lifetime free access to everything, including features we haven’t shipped yet.

Do I need a credit card to start?

No card, ever, to create a founding account. You sign up, verify, and you are in.

Installing
Why isn’t it in the App Store?

By choice. Installing from the browser means no purchase-history trail, no app-store content policing, and no 30% cut — part of how it stays free.

What devices can I install it on?

Fervra is a progressive web app — it installs to the home screen on iOS and Android and runs as a full app on desktop, straight from your browser. Once installed you get offline logging, the live timer, and notifications.

Can I use it as a couple?

Yes. Link accounts to share the entries you both lived, keep private partner notes, match fantasies, and use anti-pressure signals like “interested tonight” — with consent at every step.

Do you support poly, ENM, and exploring?

Yes. You can keep multiple partners, build shared spaces for a polycule, and set your own boundaries and limits. Consent, visibility, and per-entry sharing work the same whether you have one partner or several.

Your data
Can I delete everything?

Yes — a full export (JSON) and full account deletion with a 30-day grace window are built in, not buried.

How do I export my data?

A full export as JSON is built in — everything you have logged, in one file, whenever you want it. It sits alongside account deletion, not buried in a support queue.

Is my data encrypted?

Yes. Data is encrypted in transit and at rest, private media is never served over public URLs, and sensitive items like your AI key are stored encrypted. Access is authorized on the server for every read and write.

AI
How does the AI work?

You bring your own key (OpenAI or Anthropic), stored encrypted. Insights run on your terms with an explicit consent receipt for exactly what’s shared — and it never trains on your data.

Still curious? Just try it.

Private by default. Verified adults only. Free for the first 5,000.

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