Glossary
Check-in
A short, intentional conversation where partners share how they're feeling about the relationship and surface anything that needs attention.
Why it matters
Check-ins catch the small things early. Done regularly, they keep resentment from building and make it normal to say what you need — so the big conversations, when they come, start from a place of trust rather than surprise.
Tracking check-ins
Writing a line after each one turns scattered talks into a record of what your partner actually needs over time. In Fervra it's private by default, and you choose what a linked partner can see.
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