Glossary term

Boundaries

Also known as limitshard limitssoft limits

Boundaries are the personal limits that define what someone is and isn't comfortable with — the map that lets partners explore intimacy safely and respectfully.

The gist

Boundaries describe your comfort zone: what's welcome, what's a 'maybe,' and what's off the table. Some are firm ('hard limits') and some are flexible ('soft limits'). Sharing them isn't a mood-killer — it's what lets both partners relax and explore, knowing the edges are respected.

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