Glossary term

Fantasy

Also known as sexual fantasyfantasiesdaydream

A sexual fantasy is an imagined scenario that stirs desire — a normal, private part of everyone's inner life that can be enjoyed alone or shared with a partner.

The gist

Fantasies are the scenarios our minds drift to; having them is universal and healthy. Sharing one with a partner can be a bonding, arousing experience, though a fantasy is imagination, not necessarily a to-do list. A judgment-free conversation lets couples decide together what stays imagined and what they'd like to explore.

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