Glossary term

Lubricant (lube)

Also known as lubepersonal lubricantsexual lubricant

Lubricant is a personal product that reduces friction to make intimacy more comfortable and pleasurable — a wellness staple, not a sign anything is wrong.

The gist

Lubricant reduces friction, adding comfort and pleasure for many kinds of intimacy. Needing or wanting it is completely normal and common — factors like stress, hormones, and medication all affect natural lubrication. Water-based lube is a versatile default and is condom-safe; silicone lasts longer but shouldn't be used with silicone toys.

Tips

  • Water-based lube is the safe, versatile default; it works with condoms and every toy material.
  • Reach for it early rather than as a last resort — comfort makes everything better.

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