Cowgirl (riding)
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Cowgirl is a partner-on-top position where the receiving partner sits astride and faces their partner — putting them in control of angle, depth, and pace.
The gist
The partner on top faces down toward their partner and sets the rhythm entirely, which makes it a favorite for anyone who wants control over angle and depth. It keeps faces close for eye contact and kissing, and the partner underneath has free hands for touch. Leaning forward or sitting upright changes the sensation for both.
Step by step
One partner lies comfortably on their back.
The other straddles them, kneeling or squatting, and settles into a comfortable seat.
The top partner controls the pace — rocking, rising, or grinding as feels good.
Lean forward for closeness or sit upright to change the angle.
Tips
- The partner on top is fully in control here — a great position for dialing pace and depth to comfort.
- Hands on the chest or thighs help with balance and add grounding touch.
Related
Reverse cowgirl
Reverse cowgirl is a partner-on-top position where the top partner faces away from their partner — offering a different angle and a hands-free view for both.
Missionary
Missionary is a front-to-front position where one partner lies on their back and the other faces them from above — prized for eye contact, closeness, and easy communication.