Scenario
In the shower or bath
Also known as shower sexbath togetherwarm water
Warm water, slippery skin, and a little privacy — an easy, sensual setting for closeness that doubles as a way to unwind together.
Tips
- Lay down a mat and go slow — wet surfaces are slippery, and water washes away natural lubrication, so keep a silicone lube handy.
- Let it be relaxed; washing each other is half the intimacy.
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Scenario
Slow and sensual
A deliberately unhurried pace — long build-up, lots of touch, no rush to anywhere. It's about savouring rather than arriving.
Gentle intensity
Scenario
A massage into more
Start with a proper massage and let it drift wherever it wants to — a low-pressure way in that relaxes first and heats up on its own time.
Medium intensity