Spooning
Also known as side by sidelying on sidelittle spoon
Spooning is a side-lying, rear-facing position where both partners lie on their sides nestled together — one of the gentlest, coziest, and most relaxed options.
The gist
Both partners lie on their sides, front-to-back, like nested spoons. It's calm, close, and low-effort, with lots of full-body contact and easy access for wandering hands. The angle is naturally shallow and unhurried, which makes it a favorite for sleepy mornings, late nights, and pregnancy.
Step by step
Both partners lie on their sides, the receiving partner in front.
The partner behind curls in close, matching the curve of their body.
Bend the top knee forward slightly to open a comfortable angle.
Keep the pace slow and let the closeness lead.
Tips
- It's gentle and low-effort, which makes it comfortable when tired, unwell, or pregnant.
- The partner behind has both hands free — a natural moment for tender, roaming touch.
Related
Prone
Prone is a rear-facing position where the receiving partner lies flat on their front and the other lies over them — a lower-effort, full-body-contact variation on rear entry.
Missionary
Missionary is a front-to-front position where one partner lies on their back and the other faces them from above — prized for eye contact, closeness, and easy communication.